if you had to drop out of a class you are not a failure
if you had to take time off school you are not a failure
if you had to leave school for good you are not a failure
your worth is not determined by academia and this goes doubly so for disabled people and others for whom school is set against them
"The way i see it, no girl wants to feel like she’s been taken for granted. NO GIRL! I say this sincerely, that every girl deserves someone who constantly appreciates them,someone who is always reminding them that they’re special and amazing. Relationships always start off wonderful, but after time they can get to the point where he doesn’t do the little things he used to do before he even had you,he doesn’t seem to show the same interest towards you like when you guys met. and well that spark, that magic, starts to fade away. Why? because he makes you feel unappreciated, like you’re less wanted, and of course it makes you wonder, is he bored of me? why is he acting different now? is this the same person i fell in love with?. BOYS, thats why they tell you to be yourself, especially when it comes to dating & relationships. if you’re not the kind of guy who likes to write a girl letters, send her flowers, leave her cute text messages, buy her little gifts then and now, surprise her, do something spontaneous, singing to her, out of the blue romantic dates, then don’t be that guy, be yourself. They key isn’t to impress her, it’s to show her who you are, and hope that she likes you, well for you. You can only keep the act going for so long, you’ll get tired eventually. Relationships take work, and yes its rewarding. But if you’re in a relationship, you’re in it to make the other person happy, to be there for them. Thats what it’s all about. Everyone likes being reminded that they mean a whole lot to someone. Just don’t let the spark die, how do you do that? consistency and reassurance, thats the real secret to making any relationship work. So if you haven’t told your girlfriend lately that she means the world to you, or that you love her more than anything else in this universe, or that she’s the most beautiful creature to ever walk this earth. Then you do that right now, get off your ass. Call her, text her, run over to her place. and you kiss her, and you tell her that you need her in your life, you make sure she knows how lucky and blessed you feel to have her, and NEVER take her for granted."